

By Larissa LaFrance
I recently caught a thought trying to sneak away unacknowledged while I was reading: I want this cute moment from this contemporary romance novel to happen for me.
Before COVID-19, I had an epiphany that, with no partner and friends with schedules that didn’t align with mine, I was reluctant to do things alone. It hit me that, because of my anxiety and introversion, I was missing out on potentially joyful moments in life. After months of introspection, I determined 2020 would be the year of doing things, and, until lockdowns, I was successful! I went to a silent disco (with friends), the movies (alone), and on a first date with someone (I live with them now).
As I rang in the new year, I had the same epiphany: I’m not doing the things I want. So, I’m determined to make this another year of doing things, and I invite you to join me! The below book date ideas from contemporary romance novels can be tailored for dates with yourself (a self-care activity that doesn’t get enough credit), someone special, or friends. If you’ve ever wished for a cute book moment of your own, I hope that you feel inspired to pursue it on your terms and in whatever form works for you.
Date Ideas For Book Lovers Inspired By Dates In Contemporary Romance Books
Tarot Reading from Delilah Green Doesn’t Care by Ashley Herring Blake
Content Warning (may contain spoiler):
sexual content, death of a parent, grief, toxic relationships.
"Have you ever had a reading done?" Delilah asked. "Tarot or anything?"
Claire tapped her chin thoughtfully. "Does my amateur mother count?"
"Depends. How'd the reading go?"
"I think true love and great wealth were mentioned more than once."
"Well, damn, let's put these babies to work," Delilah said, grabbing a card from the top of the pile. She frowned at it. "It's ... a praying mantis." She turned the card so Claire could see it—indeed, against a cream background, was a solitary praying mantis.
Claire laughed. "Oh my god, are you going to bite my head off later?"
About the Book: In this romantic comedy, Delilah is paid to return to her small town for her estranged stepsister’s wedding, and on her first night, she is pursued by Claire, a single mom on the rebound. If Claire, one of the stepsister’s stuck-up besties, had recognized Delilah, there’s no way she would have hit on her, right?
Claire and Delilah want an excuse to prolong their time together and have an oracle deck with thirty cards featuring female writers and forty cards depicting “witch’s materials” within reach. This results in an evening of pulling random cards for interpretation, most of which reference sex or lust, until they take things to the bedroom.
So, how can readers capture the magic from Delilah Green Doesn’t Care for themselves? Those new to tarot can start by finding their first deck—if possible, shop locally to add to the fun—and try drawing individual cards to discover their meaning. And if a new hobby isn’t in the cards, consider booking a professional reading.
Those already comfortable with tarot can make a date out of doing readings for friends/partners or teaching someone the basics!
Drive-In Movie from Beach Read by Emily Henry
Content Warning (may contain spoiler):
sexual content, death of a parent, grief, child abuse, cancer, infidelity, domestic abuse, cult.
When we got back, I opened the tailgate and put the middle seats flat, revealing the setup of pillows and blankets I’d packed earlier, along with the cooler full of beer. “Impressed?” I asked Gus.
“By your car’s trunk space? Absolutely.”
“Har-har-har,” I said.
“Har-har-har,” Gus said back.
We climbed through the open truck, and I turned the car on, tuning the radio to the right channel to pick up the movie’s audio before settling in beside Gus just as the opening credits began.
About the Book: January, a bestselling romance novelist who no longer believes in love, and Gus, a critically acclaimed literary fiction author, spend the summer in neighboring beach houses. They’re polar opposites, and, other than proximity, the only thing they have in common is writer’s block, which inspires them to make a deal to get out of their creative ruts.
January and Gus swap writing genres for the summer and spend their weekends interviewing survivors of a death cult and taking field trips worthy of any romantic comedy—including one to Big Boy Bobby’s Drive-In. It takes them a little over an hour to get to Big Boy Bobby’s, but drive-in theaters have been dying out for decades. My local-ish establishment closed permanently in 2024, and now the closest drive-in is two hours and a border crossing away, with the second closest (sans border crossing) a four-hour commute. For the right billing, either trip would be worth it because there’s a magic that makes a night at the drive-in unforgettable.
To recreate the magic from Beach Read, try to find the nearest theater—especially if someone has a truck to create a cozy nest of blankets and pillows in the bed. If a drive-in theater isn’t possible, an at-home edition can be recreated by putting a bedsheet/screen up and using a projector. Push lounge chairs together, or fill an inflatable pool with pillows and blankets, and get some snacks for a cute experience.
Do remember: Drive-in theaters are family establishments, so keep your behavior rated PG (unlike January and Gus)!
Puzzle and Chill from The Charm Offensive by Alison Cochrun
Content Warning (may contain spoiler):
sexual content, mental illness, panic attacks/disorders, homophobia, biphobia.
"This is your idea of a romantic time?"
"I never claimed to know anything about romance," Charlie clarifies from his cross-legged position on the floor of the guesthouse living room, "but I enjoy a good puzzle, yes."
Dev is sitting on the opposite side of the coffee table, slowly sorting out the edge pieces while trying to watch the television show playing on his laptop. After the disastrous brunch full of germ-related crises and verbal idiocy and far too much leg-touching, Dev asked Charlie what he would do with his ideal afternoon. So now they're working on a jigsaw puzzle while watching the first season of The Expanse because Dev has never seen it.
About the Book: Sparks fly behind the scenes of a reality dating show between Charlie Winshaw, an awkward tech millionaire, and the season’s Prince Charming, Dev Deshpande, an aspiring screenwriter, and his assigned producer. Dev believes in fairy tales and happy endings, while Charlie only agreed to the show in an attempt to rehabilitate his image.
When I was a kid, my mom spent months working on a massive jigsaw puzzle with her friends—it was a time of drinking, laughter, and music—and once she was done, she framed it. During the pandemic, I was drawn to doing puzzles with my partner (they were in my bubble), and it provided us with an opportunity to work as a team and kept us busy during a scary time.
Doing a puzzle, or puzzing to use the term coined by Dev inThe Charm Offensive, is a great solo or group activity—and could result in some new home decor if you’re inclined. To add a personal touch, there are companies that turn your photos into a puzzle—how cute!
Dessert Dinner from Party of Two by Jasmine Guillory
Content Warning (may contain spoiler):
sexual content, misogyny, racism, classism, racial slurs
"So I was thinking we could get a few slices of pie and share."
She looked at the list of pies on the menu and then back up at him.
"That depends on what kinds you wanted. I was thinking hard about both the apple and the boysenberry, and then I was also intrigued by the lemon meringue, and then there's the pecan and..."
A woman after his own heart.
About the Book: Olivia moves to LA to start her law firm so she cab focus on her career, but then she hits it off with Maxl at the hotel bar, only to find out later that he’s a junior senator. She has no interest in dating a politician, but Max is sweet, funny, and noble, and soon they’re seeing each other in secret.
Before we talk about the concept of dessert dinner, I’d like to give some advice: order dessert first. This way, you won’t be too full to enjoy a sweet treat, and your unfinished entrée (which should travel better) can easily become your lunch for tomorrow.
Dessert dinner is exactly what it sounds like: a dinner consisting of only desserts. In Party of Two,Olivia and Max end up trying a variety of pie flavors, but be prepared to do a little research to find a restaurant with a similar dessert selection. Try looking up the dessert menus ahead of time or calling to see what’s available on special—a bakery would work in a pinch!
This date is best for those with a sweet tooth—but since no one expects you to eat six pieces of pie in one sitting, consider which desserts will travel well as leftovers for a dessert breakfast.
Cozy Reading Afternoon from Love and Other Words by Christina Lauren
Content Warning (may contain spoiler):
sexual content, death of a parent, sexual assault/rape (term not used, nor graphically described), car accident
Reaching out, he coaxed me to him until I was leaning against him and finally laying my head in his lap. He picked his book back up, and I had mine, and I listened to the even rhythm of his breathing.
"You know," I said, staring up at the ceiling while he had one hand slowly dragging again and again through my hair, "these books were sort of the perfect gift."
About the Book: Elliot and Macy’s story is told in alternating timelines showing how they became friends and then more in the weekends and summers of childhood and adolescence spent reading together in her bedroom closet and their reunion as 28-year-olds who haven’t spoken to each other in a decade.
How is a cozy reading afternoon different from a Tuesday or Saturday for the avid reader? It comes down to intention. While I’m a read-anywhere-girly, some readers might light candles and get their preferred beverage ready before settling into a lush chair with soft blankets and pillows that are simultaneously fluffy and supportive.
If that’s the case, some creativity might be necessary to achieve a cozy reading afternoon—maybe move the usual accoutrements (sans candle) to a spatial closet for an authentic Love and Other Wordsexperience.
For me, I’ll unplug from my devices and try to do at least one of the things mentioned above.
Ice Skating from Body Check by Elle Kennedy
Content Warning (may contain spoiler):
sexual content, alcoholism, gaslighting, infidelity.
"Come on, I won't let you fall," he reassured her.
With a nod of acceptance, she took his hand. The second the blades of her skates connected with the sleek ice, she almost keeled over. Her arms windmilled, her legs spread open, and her skates moved in opposite directions as if trying to force her into the splits.
About the Book: Hayden, the daughter of a former hockey coach turned team owner, is in town to support her father through a divorce while trying to figure out if her future includes the man she’s taking a break from. With encouragement from her best friend, Hayden approaches Brody at the bar for one night of fun, unaware that he’s one of her father’s players.
The main characters in a hockey romance will likely hit the ice together, and I can see the appeal: the warmth radiating from a hand wrapped in yours, the implied trust that they’re steady enough to keep you on your feet. It’s cute, but ice skating isn’t practical for everyone—including me—for a variety of reasons.
As an alternative to this Body Checkdate, why not check out a (professional or community league) hockey game? If the noise of live sports events is a challenge, there’s no shame in using headphones or noise-reduction earplugs!
While we may never get on the ice, we can enjoy the cozy vibes from the stands with our hot beverages.
Hotel Stay from Daydream by Hannah Grace
Content Warning (may contain spoiler):
sexual content, toxic relationship, mental illness, sexual assault (past, mentioned by side character.)
When the highway signs say Malibu, I realize I have no idea what he has in store for us.
Henry ignores all my questions as we pull up to the valet at a fancy hotel. He walks around the car to open my door, helping me as our overnight bags are collected from the trunk.
"This is a really nice place," I whisper to him as we climb the carpeted staircase to the lobby entrance. With only a couple of days until Christmas, there's an expensive-looking red bow and various festive ornaments decorating the entrance. "I don't think I've been anywhere this fancy before."
About the Book: Henry and Halle are having a challenging junior year at the University of California, Maple Hills (UCMH). Henry, now reluctantly the captain of the hockey team, is having problems with his reading for a difficult class while Halle tries to balance a novel writing competition with her various commitments—which now include helping Henry. In return, he helps her get life experiences for her book.
Once a year, I book a hotel (with room service) for the weekend as a self-care activity. In the past, I used these weekends as an opportunity to unplug and engage in cozy reading time, and now I spend them with my partner exploring parts of the city we don’t typically see (this almost always results in a visit to the bookstore).
This Daydream date may require some budgeting, but it doesn’t have to break the bank. Some hotels offer discount packages encouraging locals to book with them, and there are also promotions geared at relaxation (which include spa amenities) or shopping locally.
Through my work, I have access to discount programs that include deals with hotels, and my partner’s insurance company offers something similar. If a hotel has on-site spa facilities that support gift cards, consider adding one to your wishlist for gift-giving occasions.
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Larissa is a full-time Communications Administrator with a diploma in professional writing. When not working, Larissa uses her various creative projects and an endless TBR pile to avoid the laundry that needs to be folded and put away. Most recently her partner convinced her that they should totally start a podcast together and it turns out she really will do anything to avoid folding laundry.
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