By Jess Feder

I believe the mark of a good slow-burn romance is when I feel the need to shake the book at some point and scream “Just KISS already!” The mark of a good slow-burn romance is when I feel the need to do that over and over again, all while wanting them to be doing—something else—over and over again.


If you’ve never heard the terms before, ‘slow-burn’ is just a concise way of saying it will take eight times longer than you think it should for the characters to finally get together… Kidding (kind of). Really, if a romance is called a slow burn, you can expect a lot of developing feelings (the opposite of instalove or instalust), a lot of dancing around those feelings, and oh so very much pining.


If you talk to any slow-burn romance enthusiast (myself included), they’ll tell you that’s their favorite part: the pining in all its glory. If you then happen to find them reading a book with the trope (myself included), all they will do is rant about how long it’s taking for the characters to figure it out, and, you guessed it, just kiss already.


The best part of this trope, as you’ll see from the diversity of this list, is that it can be paired with literally any other trope you love.


  • That sweet slow burn of enemies melting into lovers? Done.
  • The internal angst of giving a failed relationship a second chance? You got it.
  • The grump and the sunshine fighting the draw they feel towards each other? It’s yours for the taking.

So whether you’re already on Team Pine or you have yet to experience the thrill of that kiss it took you 300 pages to earn, these ten books with slow-burn romance are ready to take you along on the ride.

Burning For The Slow Burn? Here Are Some Romance And Romantasy Books To Check Out…

The Irresistible Urge to Fall for Your Enemy by Brigitte Kightley

Book #1 in the Dearly Beloathed duology


Published: July 2025


Spice Level: Extra Mild (🌶️)

CW (may contain spoilers):

Murder, Violence, Blood, Medical Content (Note: This list doesn't include all content warnings. Please do your own research before reading this book.)

Aurienne’s only reason to keep Osric alive is her oath to do no harm. And as one of the realm’s premier healers, she might actually be the only person who can save him.


Osric greets this news with about the same level of joy she does; his assassin instincts deeply annoyed by her healer need to save everyone, even the people he needs to kill.


But to him, his life is worth her inconvenience, so he makes her a deal—money for the research needed to save the dying population of children in exchange for her best attempts to cure an illness that will get him killed sooner rather than later.


What starts as volatile animosity between them slowly morphs into curious animosity and eventually a begrudging, respectful, maybe attractive animosity. They can’t say they ever stopped hating each other, but maybe it wouldn’t be the worst thing if both of them lived.

The Irresistible Urge to Fall for Your Enemy book cover
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I don't know what it is about two characters who frustrate each other that makes me want to see them together so badly, but let me tell you… Every grump, every grimace, every eye roll (metaphorical and physical) just made me that much more excited to see Aurienne and Osric finally fall for each other. Enemies to lovers is, after all, an iconic trope for a reason: it’s SO good! And the fact that it takes these forbidden lovers more than one book to do so just makes it even better.

The Geographer’s Map to Romance by India Holton

Book #2 in the Love’s Academic series (interconnected standalones)


Published: April 2025


Spice Level: Mild (🌶️🌶️)

CW (may contain spoilers):

Sexism, Misogyny, Confinement (Note: This list doesn't include all content warnings. Please do your own research before reading this book.)

Elodie Tarrant is one of those people who runs directly towards magical disasters instead of away from them. Thankfully, unlike the tourists who tend to follow her, she’s trained in managing them; in fact, she’s very happily on her way to Wales to manage one such crisis when she gets word she’s not the only one who’s been assigned the case. Gabriel Tarrant, another expert in magical disasters, is also on his way.


While they share their expertise by happenstance, they share their last name intentionally. At least, years ago, when they first got married, it had been intentional. Now it’s more of an inconvenience. Even more inconvenient? Having to work together after having perfected their ability to ignore each other.


But Wales (and possibly all of Great Britain) is in serious danger, meaning they’ll have to put aside their animosity and learn to work together again until the world is safe and they can go their separate ways.

India Holton’s balance of humor, longing, forced proximity, and romance makes her books simply magical. Pulling off a slow burn between two people who already love each other is a difficult feat, but doing so in a way that makes you giggle, squirm, and cackle at their antics is another thing entirely. I just couldn’t get enough!

Ladies in Hating by Alexandra Vasti

Book #3 in the Belvoir’s Library series (interconnected standalones)


Published: September 2025


Spice Level: Mild (🌶️🌶️)

CW (may contain spoilers):

Death of a parent, Homophobia, Classism (Note: This list doesn't include all content warnings. Please do your own research before reading this book.)

Lady Georgiana Cleeve has finally made the life for herself that she wants, supporting herself and her mother through publishing her Gothic novels. However, a new author has appeared to challenge her comfortable life, an enigma known only as Lady Darling who seems to be poaching every new idea she has, printing a book on the same topic weeks before Georgiana’s hits the shelves.


But Georgiana’s plan to unmask and ruin the thief goes horribly wrong when she realizes her rival is none other than Cat Lacy, the first woman she ever had a crush on. As they’re forced to team up to escape the haunted mansion they find themselves trapped in, Georgiana slowly starts to wonder if that crush from long ago wasn’t as one-sided as she thought.

Is there actually anything better than two Regency women dancing around their feelings for each other and figuring out how to ask for what they want in a society that tells them they’re wrong on every level? The slow burn in this rivals-to-lovers historical romance is particularly excruciating since, as the title suggests, they’re pretty sure they hate each other at the beginning. Good thing they’re wrong.

Happy Place by Emily Henry

Standalone


Published: April 2023


Spice Level: Mild (🌶️🌶️)

CW (may contain spoilers):

Death of a parent, Grief, Depression, Generational Trauma (Note: This list doesn't include all content warnings. Please do your own research before reading this book.)

Sometimes, people lie because it’s convenient. Sometimes, they do it just for kicks. And sometimes, like Harriet and Wyn, they lie because they don’t know how to tell a mutual friend group on an annual vacation that they’re no longer engaged—in fact, they’re no longer even together.


As they fake-fiancé their way through the week, the feelings that originally caused them to say forever come rushing back, and this time, they’ll be forced to face the doubts that tore them apart instead of just running from them.


Under the watchful gazes of the people who know them best, it’s only a matter of time before the truth comes out, but will it be the truth that they don’t belong together, or that they do?

This book is in my top three favorite romance novels of all time. There were moments I was literally clutching this rom com to my chest, tears running down my face. There is a masterful connection here between what the characters learned about love as children and how those beliefs shaped and harmed their initial relationship. In this slow-burn romance, you’re not waiting for them to fall in love—you’re waiting for them to realize they’re allowed to be loved. Swoon.

Swordheart by T. Kingfisher

Book #1 in the Swordheart trilogy


Published: November 2018


Spice Level: Mild (🌶️🌶️)

CW (may contain spoilers):

Violence, Death, Murder, Suicidal Ideation (cynical, cavalier) (Note: This list doesn't include all content warnings. Please do your own research before reading this book.)

Halla would really rather not end things, but if it’s between that and marrying her cousin with clammy hands, her choice is obvious. Finding herself in this situation because of inheriting a small fortune, she decides to take drastic action.


After contemplating just how one might fall on a sword to be impaled, she unsheats the sword only to find a man suddenly appear in her bedroom, demanding she not only cease her attempt, but also that she put some clothes on.


Sarkis, the Servant of the Sword, has been trapped in the sword for centuries, sworn only to one purpose: protect the bearer at all costs. In the past, that has meant on the battlefield. But now, it looks like he’s going to have to save her from herself—and her cousin with the clammy hands.


Getting her out of the house she’s trapped in turns out to be the simplest task before them as they face ever-changing dangers and ever-growing feelings for each other.

This book first got recommended to me as “I don’t know what I just read, but I need you to read it so we can discuss.” I then proceeded to devour this grumpy x sunshine novel in a little over a day, falling more and more in love with the characters every second. Let me tell you, this book is funny, charming, and wickedly clever, and the pining is on another level. It needs to be one of the slow burn romance novels you devour as well!

And Now, Back to You by B.K. Borison

Book #2 in the Heartstrings series (interconnected standalones)


Published: February 2026


Spice Level: Medium (🌶️🌶️🌶️)

CW (may contain spoilers):

Abandonment, Dementia, Bullying, Panic Attacks (Note: This list doesn't include all content warnings. Please do your own research before reading this book.)

Jackson and Delilah have a lot in common: they both love their town, they’re both meteorologists, and their families are the center of their worlds. Of course, that’s all overshadowed by Jackson’s tidy, responsible, and quiet life that clashes disastrously with Delilah’s messy, frantic, and loud one.


Rivals at the best of times and arch nemeses at the worst, they know before they even leave that the trip their bosses are sending them on together to track an incoming blizzard is going to be a disaster.


On the road with only a grumpy technician as a buffer, they can't help but get to know each other. And as determined as they are to despise one another, it becomes harder and harder to remember why.

And Now, Back to You book cover
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Every time I try to talk about this workplace romance, I’m amazed again how much Borison was able to fit into it. Life for these two doesn’t stop while they try to figure out their feelings. If anything, their romantic reckoning could not come at a worse time. From ailing parents to absent ones, teenage meltdowns to retaliatory bosses, Jackson and Delilah face life at its fullest and eventually come together, not because they caught a break but because they faced it all together.

Fan Service by Rosie Danan

Standalone


Published: March 2025


Spice Level: Medium (🌶️🌶️🌶️)

CW (may contain spoilers):

Bullying, Abandonment, Emotional Abuse (Note: This list doesn't include all content warnings. Please do your own research before reading this book.)

Devin’s not crazy—he knows he played a werewolf on Arcane, a supernatural TV show, for too many years—and he knows that big publicity stunts aren’t going to help him get out of the typecasting troubles this is causing him now.


He’s also pretty sure that he’s actually turning into a werewolf, and no one will believe him. Well, no one except for Alex, the owner and archivist of the fan forum for Arcane who, helpfully, happens to be a vet.


Enlisting her to assist with his little wolf problem is supposed to be simple, but as they get to know each other (and his wolf side, for that matter), an already complicated situation becomes a bit hairy.

Before this book, I would have told you I had no interest in werewolf romances. But the premise of this paranormal romance hooked me, so I gave it a shot, and I’m so thrilled that I did! This book was magic from start to finish. Alex is a practical woman who knows better than to fall for a paranormal creature, never mind an actor. And yet, like her, you can’t help but root for Devin as he does his best to win her heart and take their relationship from friends to lovers.

The Ex Vows by Jessica Joyce

Standalone


Published: July 2024


Spice Level: Medium (🌶️🌶️🌶️)

CW (may contain spoilers):

Panic Attacks, Abandonment (Note: This list doesn't include all content warnings. Please do your own research before reading this book.)

Things that make wedding planning challenging include venues going up in smoke (literally), wedding bands being notoriously terrible, and a best man and maid of honor who can barely stand to be in the same room as each other. Unfortunately for Georgia and Eli, all of these things are also true for them.


Their relationship ended five years ago, but Adam, the third in their ex-and-also-best-friend trio, remains important to them both. So when he asks them to help him plan a whole new wedding in a week, how can they say no?


As long as they stay far away from each other, never speak of their past, and ignore all of the feelings for one another that they never quite forgot, they will be fine. Totally, completely fine.

There’s something about the angst of second chance romances that is just unbeatable when it comes to the slow burn. With new couples, the lead-up is about them learning each other while learning more about themselves. But for exes, they already know exactly how well they fit; they know what they’re missing. They play tug-of-war with each other, wanting what they once had back and knowing just how badly that might hurt. Something about that makes the longing just that much more potent.

The Dead Romantics by Ashley Poston

Standalone


Published: June 2022


Spice Level: Medium (🌶️🌶️🌶️)

CW (may contain spoilers):

Death of a parent, Grief (Note: This list doesn't include all content warnings. Please do your own research before reading this book.)

Florence thought the worst thing that could happen to her was the bitter breakup that made her lose faith in love. Then, she was assigned a new editor, refused an extension on her manuscript deadline, and found herself on the verge of losing her career.


As if that wasn’t enough, her life then had to get upended by the worst phone call she’s ever received—her father has suddenly died, and she needs to go home to help arrange his funeral.


When she gets there, somehow, her new (and unfairly handsome) editor, Benji, is there as well. Only he’s a ghost. She doesn’t understand why he’s there, and neither does he.


Unable to accept he’s dead, Benji becomes one more thing on Florence’s to-do list until talking to him starts to become an unexpected light in the midst of her dark world.

This is one of those books that has lived rent-free in the back of my mind since the day I read it. I certainly shouted “just kiss already!” more than once, immediately followed by “Oh right, they can’t.” But I often got so caught up in the story, I forgot he wasn’t corporeally there. Their relationship may be a slow burn, but this one will linger with you for a long time.

One Good Earl Deserves a Lover by Sarah MacLean

Book #2 in The Rules of Scoundrels series (interconnected standalones)


Published: January 2013


Spice Level: Medium (🌶️🌶️🌶️)

CW (may contain spoilers):

Grief, Death, Infidelity (past) (Note: This list doesn't include all content warnings. Please do your own research before reading this book.)

Philippa is a scientist who likes understanding how things work and hates the idea of being ignorant. This means, as her marriage and accompanying wedding night loom, she’s not so much apprehensive as to what it entails as she is frustrated. She has no idea what to expect or what’s expected of her, and in Philippa’s world, that’s simply unacceptable.


Enter: Cross. Never mind that she’s not supposed to be acquainted with him or that he’s one of the most notorious scoundrels in London; if she wants to be ruined, or at least understand what that even means, she’s going to need his help to do it. Except Cross isn’t the man everyone thinks he is, and ruining Philippa is absolutely not something he’s willing to do… No matter how much he wants to.


Understanding her fear and curiosity, he offers a compromise: he’ll answer her questions, explain anything she wants explained, but he won’t touch her. And if they can’t touch each other, that also means they can’t possibly fall in love. Right?

If you pick one book off this list to read, let it be this one. I have lost count of how many times I have gone back and re-read this historical romance. Never before have I seen sexual tension built and maintained so flawlessly in a book. I’ve been caught pacing while reading it more than once, and when I tell you their hands touching made me squeal out loud, I’m not exaggerating.

From new love to second chances, ghosts to werewolves to assassins, it turns out everyone is capable of pining over a love they believe to be out of reach. And I’m capable of rooting for them every time.


Slow burn is one of the most well-known tropes in romance for a reason—the anticipation and build-up to that first touch, first kiss, first—other things—is so sweet when it’s worth the wait. These ten books make it worth it every time.


So get ready to pine, get ready to swoon, and most of all, get ready to scream “Just KISS already!” at twenty of the most frustrating fictional characters you’ll ever meet. Happy reading!

All book cover images are sourced from Goodreads/Storygraph. 


The titles featured have been selected and recommended by the author of this blog, 

and do not necessarily reflect the views or endorsements of OwlCrate.

Jess Feder (she/they) is a queer, neurodivergent author and film accountant based out of Atlanta, GA, with a certification as a Mental Health First Responder. They have published in The Fairy Tale Magazine and been nominated for the Best of the Internet Anthology 2026. They have a short story appearing in Cupid’s Arrow’s DALLIANCES anthology in April 2026, and run an LGBTQ+ monthly book club at their hometown romance bookstore.

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